My husband and I have had some trying times these last couple of months! First we had a baby then a month later we moved almost across country from Wyoming to Oregon and while it was nice to move to a new area it was also very hard at the same time!! Kevin was learning a new job while i was learning everything new about our daughter and learning to be a new mom! it was very hard and all we did was bicker about who's turn it was to change the diaper and to feed her this time! Every time he came home from work i would nag him about helping me and i never really realized how much i was nagging him and how much it was straining on our marriage! So one day i broke down sat in bed at night and cried, i had come to realize that i needed to back off and not nag and just do it myself and let him help if he wanted to after about a week of not changing diapers he turned around and starting helping out! Coming home from work stealing Katelyn from me and changing her if she needed changing or feeding her if i was making dinner or something else! So i asked myself should i just stop nagging and let him help when he wants to, and to my amazement it worked, although he might not help all the time he tries his best to help when he wants to and that's all i ask! Has Kevin come back to claim his role as the helpful daddy! gosh i sure hope so cause some help is really nice sometimes! Especially when i am about to pull my hair out!!
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